educación sexual

When fingers are used to enter a female partner, you can explore the G-spot & other sensitive spots with greater precision. Before entering, linger at the vaginal lips, playing with them and the clitoris until they are very wet and engorged. The more lubricated and engorged they are, the more pleasurable fingering will be. If they are not completely lubricated, use saliva or coconut oil on your finger as a lubricant or try oral sex, which brings natural lubrication. Besides saliva, natural oils or water-based lubricants are best. 

Solo play is an amazing stress reliever and a great way to explore your own sexuality.  However, having your partner join in can really open you both up to a new world of pleasure.

Sexual energy is our most creative energy, we were created from sex, and increasing that energy benefits our sex life and our life outside of sex. Benefits include increased creativity, productivity, and improved physical health. Channeling sexual into productive energy can help us live extraordinary and impactful lives. 

Breathing is the key to orgasmic pleasure and lasting longer for all sexes. Even if you are multi-orgasmic, you could be unknowingly reducing your number of orgasms. Breath-holding before orgasm is a common instinct. Feeling nervous, excited, or fearful of letting go can increase tension in your body and lead to holding your breath. Regardless of why you're doing it, breath-holding during sex limits the amount of oxygenated blood flow to your genitals, which can sabotage your orgasms.  

Female ejaculation remains a mystery to many. Tantra and Taoist practices increase your orgasmic potential.  Practices such as the "Jade Egg Practice" combined with breathing techniques help increase sensations in the female genitals. Following a 21 Day practice many report an increase in self-lubrication and orgasms.

According to the Taoists, each time you have an orgasm (without ejaculating), you build more energy into your body. Therefore, if you eventually do ejaculate, you lose less of your energy.  The building of sexual energy is why ejaculation after multiple orgasms is less draining than the old “Wham, bam, thank you, Ma’am” ejaculation. If you have six orgasms and then ejaculate, you will lose approximately half as much energy. The Taoists recommended that each man ejaculates according to his age, his health, and the circumstances of his life.

Most of us grew up reading fairy tales and waiting for Prince Charming to bring us our happily ever after. These stories served neither boys or girls. Our traditional stories put pressure on the masculine to be the hero and portrayed the feminine as the damsel in distress. We grow up to act tough, suppress our emotions, and deal with it. We spend time, energy, money and more looking for a romantic partner to meet our needs and fulfill our dreams. So many times we wait around to feel loved. We count on…

Did you know that you can enhance your pleasure and have a more sensual SEX by engaging all of your five senses? By using all 5 senses, SEX is more than a roll in the hay. It’s pure pleasure.

(That's right - the secret to better, more pleasurable sex is literally right below your nose) 

We all want a deeper connection during sex.

And we often feel steamy hot when we accomplish those “deep” positions. It feeds our ego to think we’re truly going deep, reaching another person and giving (and having) an unforgettable experience.

But do you know how to go to the depth of your partner's soul? Of your soul? Can you open your soul to another, or are you hiding behind mechanics and gimmicks?

Before I discovered Tantra I thought that my sex life was AWESOME. I was having better sex than pretty much all of my friends, you know, I was the friend everyone came to for tips to elevate their sex life. I thought I had it down.

Oh baby was I wrong..

Albert Einstien has a quote:

“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results”

And it got me thinking - how does this apply to so many different areas of our lives.

Right now I'm editing my content for my Red Tantra module for the Intro to Tantra Course where we're focusing on how to have amazing pleasure with a lover and having epic self-pleasure rituals with Tantra.

A cock ring is most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger, to keep it that way for a longer amount of time, and to delay and heighten orgasm. Cock rings work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis. When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to come, and because the penis is filled with additional blood.