How To Use
A Vibrator
Vibrators are one of the most popular types of sex toys there is, especially among sex toys for women. Today, there are many different types, styles, shapes, materials, and functions to choose from. There are classic vibrators, rabbit vibrators, clit sucking vibrators, thrusting vibrators, multi-function vibrators, remote or bluetooth controlled vibrators, bullet vibrators, panty vibrotors, and many more. In this guide, we will briefly go over the various styles and their functions. We will also discuss how to choose the best type of vibrator that’s best for your needs, as well as how to use a vibrator for the best possible experience.
Why use a Vibrator?
Vibrators are one of the top categories of sex toys because they are so effective for producing pleasure. Masturbation by itself is an amazing experience and can bring loads of pleasure, stress relief, and a deeper understanding of yourself. Vibrator sex can greatly elevate these experiences to a level not possible by natural ways themselves. Vibrators are not just great for enhancing masturbation, they can also greatly add to the experience of partnered sex as well.
Make Sure to Lube Up
Vibrators are a versatile tool that can be used on various parts of the body, including body parts that have no natural lubrication. Lubrication not only reduces friction but also heightens sensitivity and pleasure beyond what even natural lubrication can produce.
What Kind of Lube should I use?
- Plastic vibrators: use silicone, water-based, or oil-based lubricants
- Silicone, rubber, and realistic feel (TPE or TPR) vibrators: use only water-based lube, as other lubes can damage materials over time.
Get To Know the Settings and Functions
Vibrators vary greatly in their functions and settings. Some vibrators have a dial or button on the base end, others have sealed, waterproof buttons along the side, and some even are controlled wirelessly by a remote or an app. It is important to familiarize yourself with your vibrator functions before getting down to business so you don’t overdo things with intensity and can also get the most enjoyment out of your new toy.
Explore Your Body with Your Vibrator
While it is true that traditionally a vibrator is used on your nether regions, they don’t have to be. In fact, you have many erogenous zones on your body, and trying out your vibrator on these other areas can bring you loads of pleasure as well. It can even be a great idea to start with these areas, such as your nipples, along your neck, etc, to build up your sexual desire before heading to the goal line. The build-up of sexual energy will make your orgasms much more powerful and enjoyable. Whether you are just learning how to masturbate, or you are already a seasoned pro, vibrators bring an entirely different approach on how to cum.
Introduce Your New Toy to Partnered Sex
Vibrators are an amazing addition to partnered sex, especially remote/app-controlled versions. It is not only super-hot having your partner control your toy while you lay back end enjoy the ride, but it can also deepen the intimacy between you and your partner. It is important to be open-minded with sex toys and not to limit yourself to their traditional uses. For example, a classic Rabbit vibrator would traditionally be used to stimulate the clitoris and inserted into the vagina, but you can also hold it against the penis and have mind-blowing orgasms. The possibilities really are endless.
Types of Vibrators
Bullet Vibrators
Bullet Vibrators are very popular and a great choice for your very first vibrator as they are small, not overwhelming, and are discreet. Due to their small form factor, Bullet vibrators can be used to target specific pleasure zones on your body and are also a great vibrator to use with your partner.
Benefits of Bullet Vibrators
- Small form factor makes them easy to travel with for on-the-go pleasure.
- Contoured tip and small size make Bullet vibrators ideal for direct and intense clitoral stimulation.
- Ideal to use with a partner during penetrative sex as they are small and non-obstructive.
Classic Vibrators
Classic style vibrators are also a popular choice for those looking for their first vibrator as they are simple in design, insertable, and can easily be used with a partner.
Benefits of Classic Vibrators
- Easy to use without being intimidating
- Can be used for direct clitoral stimulation or used in other pleasure zones
- Offered in a price range from budget to high-end
- Often multi-vibration levels and multi-speed settings
Rabbit Vibrators
Rabbit Vibrators happen to be one of the most popular and well known categories of vibrators. These glorious toys are feature packed and feel absolutely incredible. They are called rabbit vibrators because they have a clitoral stimulator attached to the shaft that often looks like a pair of rabbit ears. The combination of vaginal, g-spot, and clitoral stimulation causes what is called a 'Blended Orgasm', and if you have ever expereinced one, you know that there is nothing that compares.
Benefits of Rabbit Vibrators
- Rabbit vibrators come equiped with multiple functions with the minimum being vaginal and clitoral stimulation
- Some even have rotating, thrusting, and even heated functions on top of g-spot and clitoral stimulation. Thats one crazy intense orgasm!
- Models such as the Lelo Soraya Wave even have a "cum-hither" motion that replicates a finger rubbing the g-spot.
- Are often made of higher quality materials
Finger Vibrators
Finger vibrators are another great choice when it comes to small and simple-to-use vibrators. Finger Vibrators are some of the smallest vibrators available and are usually small bullet vibrators mounted to a textured sleeve with a ring attached for finger use. Their small form factor and the ability to mount to a finger make them ideal for direct clitoral stimulation or even nipple stimulation.
Benefits of Finger Vibrators
- Since they attach to a finger, they can be used in a more natural manner whether it’s your own finger or your partner’s finger.
- Ideal for clitoral stimulation and nipple stimulation
- Offered in a variety of shapes and styles with varying speeds and patterns
Butterfly Vibrators
Butterfly Vibrators are named so because they are often shaped like a butterfly. They can be described as a bullet-style vibrators with straps attached so they can be worn around your waist area and stimulate the clitoris directly.
Benefits of Butterfly Vibrators
- Can be worn under clothes for discreet pleasure
- Provides hands-free pleasure
- Often remote or app-controlled for added fun and functionality for you (or a partner)
- Can be worn during penetrative sex with a partner
Clitoral Vibrators
Clitoral Vibrators as the name suggests are specifically designed as a clit stimulator that produces an intense clit orgasm. They come in a wide variety of styles and shapes and are quickly becoming one of the most sought-after types of vibrators.
Benefits of Clitoral Vibrators
- Often are more powerful and can accommodate larger areas for greater stimulation
- They are often larger than bullet vibrators and are contoured in a way that is great for grinding on.
- Many have a larger selection of functions and more powerful vibration functions.
- Often pair with an app for an even greater variety of functionality and many are even waterproof so you can use them in a relaxing bath.
Clitoral Suction Vibrators
This technology is now one of the fastest-growing segments of the vibrator market. First introduced by the Womanizer brand, clit sucking vibrators quickly caught on, and now many top brands offer products with this technology. The Satisfyer brand has really focused on this game-changing technology and now leads the pack with air-pulse/suction technology.
Benefits of Clitoral Suction Vibrators
- Clitoral suction vibrators are great for preventing over-stimulation (numbing) as there is no direct contact with the clitoris
- The suction or air-pulse technology offers a uniquely pleasurable experience unlike anything else available
- There are many products that combine both clitoral suction with a curved insertable end for blended g-spot and clitoral stimulation.
- They are rechargeable and waterproof
- Can be used in combination with insertable vibrators such as a G-spot vibrator for even greater pleasure.
G-Spot Vibrators
G-spot vibrators are also on the rise in popularity as they are amazing at stimulating the coveted G-spot. The G-spot is one of the most sensitive areas of the vagina and sits about 1-2 inches inside the vagina on the upper wall (pelvic wall side). G-spot orgasms are known to be one of the most powerful types of orgasms a woman can have, which is why G-spot vibrators have become so popular.
Benefits of G-Spot Vibrators
- G-Spot vibrators often feature an upward curve and larger surface area for maximum stimulation
- Many products combine both clitoral and g-spot stimulation for intense blended orgasms
- Many women find g-spot stimulation leads to female ejaculation (squirting)
- Often have a variety of speeds, functions, and vibration intensities
Egg Vibrators
With a similar shape and size, Love Egg Vibrators are much like Kegel exercisers only with a vibrating motor instead of weights.
Benefits of Love Egg Vibrators
- Great for use during masturbation or when receiving oral sex for a blended orgasm.
- A vibrating egg is designed to vibrate against the g-spot for intense internal pleasure.
- Often are app, remote, or wire controlled for added variety during sex with a partner or even discreet pleasure while out in public.
Luxury Vibrators
If you are looking for the very best, we have to offer, luxury vibrators are the only choice. Luxury vibrators are of the highest quality, offer the most innovative, and often have the most functionality.
Benefits of Luxury Vibrators
- Most are app-controlled with a large variety of functions and personalized control
- Made of more expensive materials which are more luxurious, more durable, and longer-lasting.
- Innovative design, curves, and materials make these vibrators feel incredible.
- Most are rechargeable and even waterproof
- Often have the most features of any type of vibrators
Wand Vibrators
Wand vibrators have traditionally been used as body massagers because of their larger size and powerful vibrations. However, once it was discovered how well they stimulate the clitoris, Wand vibrators exploded in popularity. Wand vibrators are arguably the most powerful of all vibrator styles and offer a wide range of vibration settings. While these vibrators come in both corded and cordless versions, the plugin style is the most powerful.
Benefits of Wand Vibrators
- They are some of the most powerful vibrators offering maximum stimulation
- They are very versatile as they can be used to stimulate the clitoris and other erogenous zones, as well as they are great for massages.
- Many have optional wand attachments for even greater versatility.
Couple's Vibrators
Couples’ vibrators are as the name suggests, primarily designed for couples to use during sex. These vibrators are a more recent entry into the world of sex toys compared to many other styles we have mentioned earlier, however they are quickly becoming one of the most populor sex toys for couples. They are either an app or remote controlled and most are designed to fit inside the vagina and used during penetrative sex. Many are a U-shape design where one end is textured and inserted inside the vagina and pressed on the g-spot, while the other end curves around the outside of the vagina and presses firmly against the clitoris. This design allows the penis to penetrate the vagina at the same time for a trio of pleasure for her. It also provides intense pleasure for him also as he not only has pleasure from penetrating the vagina, but the strong vibrations also stimulate the penis, creating a world of pleasure for both him and her at the same time.
Benefits of Couples Vibrators
- Flexible design allows for a perfect fit for all woman
- App/remote control provides lots of variety and adds more fun as both partners can control its function wirelessly.
- Can be used during solo play or worn during intercourse.
- Rechargeable and waterproof
Dildo Vibrators
Much like realistic dildos that closely resemble a penis, only these versions have the added benefit of vibrations. If you are after the realistic feel of a real penis but still want those strong vibrations, Dildo vibrators might just be the right fit for you.
Benefits of Dildo Vibrators
- Most have a variety of speeds and vibration levels
- Come in a multitude of sizes
- There are loads of options available, from real skin feel, suction cups, and even swinging balls for the most realistic experience
Vibrating Strap-Ons
Just like the non-vibrating versions, vibrating strap-ons come in a variety of sizes and styles with the added benefit of containing strong vibrational motors providing pleasure for both partners.
Benefits of Vibrating Strap-ons
- They come in a variety of sizes and textures for a personalized feel
- Most work with a variety of harness styles
- Many contain strong internal vibrating motors, creating incredible pleasure for both partners